Can I Empty Out Yet

There was a lot of poking and prodding as the medical technicians put me through the paces for my physical. Never have I had so many tests in one day but I spread out the tests in order to get them all done today. What I thought was going to turn into an all-day event; laptop, journal and reading material in tow, I was in and out like the crack of a whip. These people were so efficient and professional making my visit that much more pleasant and short. No co-pay and a discount on my parking made me think out loud, God bless you President Barak Obama. Your fortitude in getting the health bill passed makes it easier for people like me to appreciate a top notch health system. I declare that all is well, except my bladder still is not empty. The strange dream with tubes running everywhere did not correspond to the reality of my appointment. It was all relatively simple. I'm glad it's done and now I can focus on resolving any issues that might arise from the test results. All is well and now I can empty out.

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Purpose and Destiny

Often I’ve wondered about destiny and fulfilling purpose, you know the ideas that come across your mind when you think you’re not doing enough to make a difference. Deciding that it doesn’t take a lot is what led to my afore-posted blog, Things that Make Me Happy. Spending a few days in my hometown of Chicago allowed me to reflect on how my life is spiraling. Taking that round trip flight was cause enough for celebration; the aircraft took off and landed with no problems four times for its’ passengers. Having fun with the flight attendants who promised they would eBay my garment bag if I forgot it at the end of the trip caused a stir. At the end of the flight I told the young man “No eBay for you!” using a terrible Russian accent. While making myself comfortable in the window seat after stepping over a gentleman’s bag I was glad I didn’t kick his bag in anger. That consideration and giving him the airline peanuts I didn’t want got me the promise of a speaking engagement at my alma mater. He is an instructor there he told me. While in Chicago I did as planned and made space for the unplanned (mom had surgery the day I arrived). Although I wanted to attend church services with my sorority sisters I thought it would be wiser to accompany my younger sister to mom’s house to help make her comfortable. At 87 mom is way bossy and spoiled. I blame the siblings that remain in my hometown. But I love her both near and far. These reflections make me realize precious life. Now while finishing up my communications to Facebook friends I remember I have a few doctor’s appointments to schedule. Routine stuff to make sure I stay out of surgery. Ah h h h h life! I am grateful for you. In case you missed it; being a kind, considerate friend to you is my purpose and my destiny is to find you.

Things that Make Me Happy

A hot cup of coffee, a cold bottle of water, a full tank of gas, stockings with no runs, a good pair of flats, a warm winter coat, watching the sunlight stream through my bedroom window, toilet tissue, toiletries, a great haircut, my favorite lipstick, internet access, minutes on my cell phone, sunrise, sunset, a walk along the beach, a conciliatory conversation, family that loves me, friends who are dear to me, a fantastic sermon, inspirational music, freedom to live life to its fullest, ability to learn from my mistakes are some of things that make me happy. Not having everything one desires makes one appreciate the simplest things.

Ungluing from Reality TV

Here is what I think about most realty shows, most need to be replaced with some old fashioned television programming. Why are we watching people’s lives? The good, bad and ugly is there for the entire world to view. Why? Reality TV has ruined more relationships and lives than the Titanic. Why do we have to be party to peoples’ bad behavior? Why are we glued to the television night after night watching people do what we should or should not be doing for ourselves? I am of the opinion that Reality TV had a tremendous role to play in the snap decision of Kim Kardashian to marry so quickly a man she barely knew. And does the weight of this show sit on Kimberly's shoulders. Would people stop watching if she excused herself from the show? Makes for good footage those who follow this family might say. But in the end are we going to be there when the chips start to fall or when Ms. Kardashian begins to have back pains from sleeping with a man whose equipment is probably way too large for her to handle? There is more behind this woman’s decision to end her newlywed bliss. No matter how we may feel about Kim or her family, let’s step back and give her an opportunity to sort through things. After all she is a person too.